Want to Drink After Work?

The first few minutes home are where the routine usually starts.

A man just home from work pausing in the kitchen before the first drink, with keys and a bag nearby and the drink still untouched on the counter.

If the bag drops, the kitchen opens, and the drink comes next, the whole evening can start to feel decided before you actually decide.

Change the sequence first. You only need a different next 10 minutes.

This page is for the walk-in-the-door moment, before the first drink becomes automatic.

Pause before the first drink

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Why this can help right now

Alcohol cues can increase craving and the immediate value of alcohol, and acute stress can increase that pull further.

That is why this page stays focused on the walk-in-the-door routine: after work, the same sequence of cues can make the first drink feel like the default before you slow the moment down.

In cue-exposure work, a short coping strategy such as distraction reduced craving and urge distress, which is why a brief interruption can be more useful than arguing with yourself at the door.

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What to do instead in the next 5 minutes

Do not start in the kitchen. Put your keys down somewhere else and stay there for one minute.
Change clothes, wash your face, or shower before you open anything.
Drink something cold or eat something small so the first reward is not alcohol.
Set a 10-minute timer. Do not pour or buy anything until it ends.

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About NotNow

NotNow is built for the short window when an after-work drinking routine is about to start and you need the next few minutes to go differently.